10 – 12 years: Independence and decision-making

Imagine that you are in an unfamiliar place and you have to decide which direction to go. What will you do first? I'll try to remember if I saw any landmarks.
I will ask someone who looks trustworthy.
I'm going in a random direction and we'll see where it leads me.
I will stay in place and wait to see if anyone comes to help.
I am trying to analyze everything logically and create a plan.

Imagine that you have to plan a trip for your friends. How would you go about it? I will choose something that interests me the most personally.
I will ask the others for their opinions and make a compromise.
I will plan everything in detail and prepare a list of things we will need.
I'll leave it to someone else; I'm just fine with joining in.
I will come up with something unusual and surprise everyone.

You received a reward and you can choose how to spend it. What will you do? I'll save it for something bigger.
I will divide it into several smaller things that will make me happy.
I will ask my parents what I should do.
You spend it right away on something spontaneous.
I will buy something that will also make my loved ones happy.

Your friend is arguing with another friend and wants you to take his side. How will you react? I will try to find out what actually happened and be fair.
I will support my friend even though I don't know all the details.
I will stay out of it and not get involved.
I will try to cheer them up so they forget about the argument.
I will propose a solution that would help them reach an agreement.

You are home alone and suddenly the power goes out. What will you do? I'll call my parents right away or someone who would know what's going on.
I will check the circuit breakers and try to resolve the situation myself.
I will light a candle and wait for the electricity to come back.
I will panic for a while, but then I will try to calm down.
I'll make the most of the situation and turn it into an adventure.

If you were to write a book, what kind of story would you create? An adventurous story full of tension.
Something realistic about everyday life.
A fantasy world full of magic and wonders.
A detective story where I would solve mysteries.
Something humorous to make the readers laugh.

You will have the opportunity to lead a team for a school project. How would you approach that? I will strive to ensure that everyone has a clear task and follows it.
I'll wait to see if someone else takes it on, and I'll adapt.
I am trying to make it as fun and creative as possible.
I would prefer to work alone without the responsibility for others.
I will ask the team for their ideas and will look for compromises.

You have the opportunity to learn something new, but it's quite challenging. What will you do? I'll give it a try, even though it will take a long time.
I will find out if someone could help me with that.
If it doesn't interest me, I won't worry about it.
I will break my studying into smaller steps and take it slow.
I'm looking for a way to learn it in a more fun way.

You found yourself in a situation where you made a mistake. How do you react to that? I admit it and I will try to make amends.
I'll try to somehow disguise it or justify it.
I feel very bad and have been thinking about it for a long time.
I will learn from this and next time I will be more careful.
I will try to turn it into a joke so that we can forget about it.

You can choose one superhero whose traits you would like to have. Which one will you choose? Someone strong and invincible.
Someone wise and thoughtful.
Someone who helps others and is a good example.
Someone who can change things according to their own will.
Someone who is quick and always knows what to do.