16 – 18 years: Advanced social skills and conflict resolution

Imagine you are on a trip with your friends, and there is a disagreement about where to go next. How would you react? I try to listen to all opinions and propose a compromise.
I firmly stand by my position and convince others.
I'll wait for the group to decide, and I'll adjust accordingly.
I will propose a vote to make the decision fair.
I’d rather distance myself and wait for the situation to resolve.

In school, you noticed that your friend is acting strange and avoiding people. How will you react? I subtly ask him if everything is alright.
I'll wait until he opens up to me himself.
I will tell someone about it who could help him.
I will suggest a joint activity to him so that he is not alone.
I don't pay attention to it, everyone has a bad day sometimes.

You are in a team that must complete an important project, but one member is not doing their part of the work. What will you do? I will talk to him to find out what's going on.
I will inform the manager to take care of it.
I am trying to compensate for it and do more work on my own.
I motivate and encourage him to get involved.
I'll leave it as it is; everyone should take responsibility for their tasks.

In a conversation with friends about a serious topic, you notice that someone is quiet and isn't expressing their opinion. How would you behave? I will directly ask him what he thinks.
I subtly give him space to get involved.
I'll leave it up to him; if he wants to talk, he'll reach out himself.
I will change the topic to something more neutral to make them feel more comfortable.
I will try to engage him with a question that might interest him.

Your best friend does something you disagree with. How will you react? Let's open it in private and I'll share my opinion with him.
I'd rather keep it to myself, I don't want to disrupt the relationship.
I will try to understand his perspective and then decide what to do next.
I will make it clear to him that it was wrong, even if he gets offended.
I ignore it, it's not my business.

You are witnessing someone in a group of people mocking a weaker classmate. What will you do? I will stand up for him and make it clear that it's not okay.
I am subtly trying to support him so that he doesn't feel alone.
I will try to divert attention and change the topic.
I will tell someone who can intervene.
I don't intervene; I don't want to turn others against me.

A friend unexpectedly says something that offends you. How do you react? I'll ask him why he said that, and I'll try to understand.
I will express my feelings so that he knows it has affected me.
I'll leave it as it is, after all, it's just a word.
I will respond similarly, so he understands what it’s like.
I will withdraw and start avoiding him.

During group work, you have differing opinions on how to proceed. What will you do? I will propose a compromise that could satisfy everyone.
I stick to my solution and try to convince others.
I will let the majority decide and I will adapt.
I'll wait to see how the situation develops and get involved later.
I suggest that we divide the tasks and each do our part in our own way.

In a group of new people, you notice that someone appears shy and is hanging back. How do you respond? I will subtly involve him in the conversation.
I'll leave it at that, everyone has their own way of socializing.
I will ask him directly if he wants to join the debate.
I will wait to see if he joins on his own, and then I will decide.
I will try to approach him in a relaxed manner so that he feels comfortable.

Your friend is in conflict with someone else and asks you to take his side. How will you decide? I will maintain a neutral stance and try to ease the conflict.
I will support him because he is my friend.
First, I will listen to the other side to form my opinion.
I'm not getting involved, it's not my problem.
I am trying to escalate the conflict as little as possible.