The Language of Love

When you want to show someone that you care about them, what do you do first? I will plan a joint experience or trip.
I will write him a nice message or letter.
I will do something practical for him that will make his day easier.
I will hug him or show him physical affection.
I'll buy him something that I know will make him happy.

If you felt unloved in a relationship, what would help you the most? More frequent words of recognition and appreciation.
More quality time without distractions.
If my partner helped me more with everyday things.
More physical contact, such as hugs or touches.
If he would express his love to me more often with small gifts or surprises.

How do you like to spend time with the people who matter to you? We are talking about life and sharing our thoughts.
We are doing something new or adventurous.
We help each other with everyday things.
We sit close to each other, hugging or holding hands.
We give each other small gifts or surprises.

When you are with a loved one, what fills you the most with the feeling of being loved? When he tells me that he admires me and appreciates me.
When he fully dedicates himself to me and spends quality time with me.
When they spontaneously help me without me having to ask.
When he often hugs me or gently touches me.
When he brings me something that reminds me that he is thinking of me.

If your partner messes up, how should they apologize to have the most value for you? With sincere words and an explanation of why he regrets it.
By him dedicating more time to me and showing me that he cares about me.
When he/she tries to make things right with a specific action.
By giving me a hug or gently holding my hand.
When someone brings me something that brings a smile to my face.

If you imagine a perfect day with the person you love, what would it look like? We would talk all day about life and feelings.
We would go on a trip or experience something new.
We could do a joint project or help each other.
We would spend it in each other's arms and physical closeness.
We would give each other small, symbolic gifts.

How do you react when someone confesses their love to you? I value sincere words and the expression of feelings the most.
I will respond by saying that I will spend more time with him.
I want to repay him by helping him or doing something for him.
I will express my joy through physical contact.
I appreciate it when he gives me something that expresses his feelings.

When you truly love someone, how do you show it? I often tell him what I admire about him.
I am trying to spend as much time with him as possible.
I do things for him that make his life easier.
I'm looking for opportunities for physical contact, hugs, and touches.
I give him small, thoughtful gifts.

What showed you the most in your childhood that you were loved? When my parents encouraged and praised me.
When we spent beautiful moments together.
When they helped me with things I couldn't handle on my own.
When they hugged me and held my hand.
When they brought me a gift just like that, without any reason.

If you had the chance to express love in one sentence, what would it be? "You are important to me and I admire you."
"I will always be with you, no matter what."
"Let me do something that helps you or brings you joy."
"Come here, I want to hug you."
"I brought you something that reminded me of you."