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How to boost your self-confidence and stop underestimating yourself.
Imagine that you are entering a room full of strangers. What is the first thing that comes to your mind?
I would be interested to know who they are and what stories they have.
I would rather stay in the background and observe how things develop.
I feel tension because I don't know how they will react to me.
I will focus on appearing as good as possible and confidently.
I tend to look for someone who seems just as shy as I am.
If you had to choose a metaphor for your inner voice, what would it be?
A strict teacher who constantly evaluates me.
A quiet observer who occasionally whispers advice to me.
An encouraging coach who reminds me of my strengths.
An unclear echo that I sometimes hear and sometimes do not.
A close friend who tells me that I can do it.
Imagine that your sense of self-esteem is an object in a room. What does it look like?
Wooden chair – sturdy, but occasionally wobbles.
A small candle – it shines, but needs protection from the wind.
Mirror – reflects only what I show it.
The invisible hand – it is there, but I don't always feel it.
The lighthouse – strong and stable, yet sometimes it is shrouded in fog.
How do you react when you receive an unexpected compliment?
I immediately look for a reason why I don't deserve her.
I smile, but inside I doubt whether they meant it sincerely.
I feel good, but it takes me a while to believe it.
I accept it and thank you, but I'll quickly change the topic.
I am happy about it and I perceive it as a confirmation of my worth.
Which of these statements is closest to you?
I need to try harder to be good enough.
When someone compliments me, I usually overlook it.
Sometimes I manage to believe in myself, but I don't always maintain it.
I am learning to embrace my strengths, even though it's not easy.
I am aware of my worth and I will not let it be taken from me.
If you had to choose your mentor, what type of personality would it be?
Someone who helps me see the qualities that I cannot see in myself.
A strong leader who will teach me how to assert myself.
Someone patient who will give me time to develop at my own pace.
A mentor who will show me that confidence does not mean perfection.
Someone who has seen me as an equal from the very beginning.
Imagine that your uncertainty is a character in a story. What does it look like?
The shadow that follows me, but sometimes disappears.
A silent observer who occasionally whispers doubts to me.
A fragile figure that is afraid to step into the light.
A changeable spirit that changes shape according to the situation.
A curious companion who challenges me, but sometimes also helps me.
What do you most often tell yourself when something doesn't go well?
I should have guessed it, it will never work out for me.
I probably didn't have enough abilities for that.
Today it didn't work out for me, but next time it could be different.
Every mistake teaches me something, even though it makes me sad.
Failure is just a part of the journey, I will try again.
What would the world look like if you had unlimited self-confidence?
People would finally start to take me seriously.
I could focus on things that I am currently putting off.
I wouldn't be afraid to try new challenges.
I would feel free and authentic.
I would live the same way, but with more peace within myself.
Imagine that tomorrow you wake up and all your doubts are gone. What does your day look like?
I can fully concentrate on what I want to achieve.
I express my opinions without fear of rejection.
I feel natural and I am not trying to be someone else.
I enjoy moments without an internal critic.
I live with the assurance that I am good enough just as I am.
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