Compromise as an Art: How to Find Common Solutions

Imagine a situation where someone proposes a solution that you disagree with. How do you feel at first? I feel like defending my opinion, even if I have to raise my voice.
At first, I remain silent and observe what others think.
I feel a slight irritation, but I am trying to understand its reason.
I usually try to find at least something in his proposal that I agree with.
I will start analyzing where our positions diverge.

What sounds like the most natural way for you to respond in a conflict? Change the topic to reduce tension.
Ask: "What would you suggest if you were me?"
Stand your ground, but with calmness and arguments.
Accept that we may not reach an agreement and leave it at that.
Offer an exchange – I will give way here, you there.

What image comes to your mind when you hear the word "compromise"? A handshake after an exhausting discussion.
A band-aid solution to a problem that cannot really be solved.
Two paths that merge into one.
Tug of war that ultimately does not break.
Divided apple – each gets half.

Someone close has a completely opposite view on an important matter. What will you do? I know that he is entitled to his opinion, even if I don't understand it.
First I will withdraw, then I might return to the topic.
I am definitely trying to find common ground.
I am trying to convince him with logical arguments.
I can't just leave it like that – I need him to understand it.

Which of these sentences sounds most like something you would say? "That's not ideal, but I can live with it."
"If it's not fair, I won't get involved."
"Let's find a solution that won't upset either of us."
"For the peace in the house, I occasionally give in."
"It is important that my voice is also taken into account."

What image would you draw if you had to depict a common solution? Bridge between two banks.
Two figures holding the same umbrella.
Divided field with different crops but the same yield.
A joint dance, where the steps alternate.
A compass showing multiple directions, but with one center.

What disrupts your ability to seek compromise the most? The feeling that I am backing down too often.
When someone is not listening.
When we are in a hurry and there is no time.
When it comes to principle.
When I don't know what I actually want.

In what situation would you be willing to give up your opinion? When I see that the other person is very happy about it.
When something is offered to me in return.
When I feel that it is not that important.
When I'm not completely sure about my stance.
When it comes to preserving a relationship.

How do you perceive people who always insist on their own way? They may be uncertain, and that is their defense mechanism.
They need to have control.
They learned that retreating is a weakness.
They are persistent, but not always efficient.
I wonder if they can also listen.

Imagine that you have to resolve something with someone completely different. What motivates you the most to seek a compromise? I want it to make sense for both of us.
I don't want to create unnecessary tension.
I know that collaboration brings more than conflict.
I am curious about what I can learn from his perspective.
I consider it a challenge that I want to overcome.