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I am different at work, at home, among friends. Is that okay?

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I am different at work, at home, among friends. Is that okay?

Career and professional development

Career
Success
Talent
Work
Leadership
Professional growth
Mentoring
Emotions at work
Startup
Remote work
Gig economy
Personal brand
Portfolio creation
Why in career

Imagine that someone very close to you says: "You are completely different when you are around people." What is the first thing that resonates within you?

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He probably means it as a reproach. I will think about where I might have gotten lost. It is true – and I don’t mind it. We are different depending on the situation, it’s nothing unusual. I feel like she doesn't really know me at all.

Which painting is closest to you?

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An actor in a costume who masters his roles. A child who screams at home but is quiet at school. A bird that always chooses a different tree. A mirror that only reflects what is in front of it. A tree that changes colors, but the roots remain the same.

When do you most often feel internal tension?

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When I have to adapt, even though I don't agree with it. When I have to be myself and I don't know what that exactly means. When I feel like I don't fit in anywhere. When I feel exposed. When I have to be strong all the time, even when I don't want to.

How do you explain that people often behave differently in different environments?

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They play roles that others expect from them. They are afraid to be vulnerable. It is a natural reaction to the environment. They learn what works and behave accordingly. They are not aware of who they really are.

If you could spend a day completely alone, with no expectations from others – how would you behave?

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Freely and intuitively, without thinking. I wouldn't know what to do with myself. I would enjoy the peace and quiet. I would try to prove something to myself as well. I would be like someone I haven't known for a long time.

How do you feel when you behave differently than usual in front of different people?

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Split, as if I were lying. Skilled – I know how to engage. Confused – sometimes I don't know who I am. In safety – not everything can always be shown. Neutral – everyone has it that way.

What idea comes to your mind that is closest to the word "authenticity"?

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To be honest, even if it's not popular. To not have to hide anything. To know who I am, even if I change it according to the situation. To be the same in every environment. I don't know if something like complete authenticity really exists.

When you meet new people, what do you pay the most attention to?

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Emotions - I don't want to be too open. Weaknesses - I'm afraid they will take advantage of it. The past - not everything must be known. Dreams – not everyone would understand them. Nothing - I want to be accepted just as I am.

How would you describe your "true" version of yourself?

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She is quieter than what others see. She is braver than they think. I'm not sure if I know her. It appears when I feel safe. It is the same as the one I show outwardly.

What do you think about people who behave completely differently at home, at work, and among friends?

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They envy me for being more balanced. I understand them – everyone has their reasons. It means that they are still being searched for. It's not strange – I'm like that too. It's a sign that they might be afraid to be themselves.

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