How to Support Your Child’s Motivation in Everyday Life

How to Support Your Child’s Motivation in Everyday Life

Practical questions, games, and small goals can help children get started, build perseverance, and give parents and coaches a clear way forward.



When a child is reluctant to tackle a task, it can help to break it into manageable steps and decide together where to begin. It may also be useful to let the child choose between two options or reflect at the end on what they managed to do. This blog brings together practical techniques, games, and conversation tips that parents, teachers, and coaches can adapt to each child’s age, interests, and pace.

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Imagine that your child has lost interest in their favorite activity. What is the first thing that comes to your mind?

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If your child achieves an unexpected success, what goes through your mind?

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How would you describe the right motivation in children?

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Your child comes home with a note from school. How do you react internally?

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How do you feel when your child refuses to do something they "should"?

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What does "successful child" mean to you?

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What will you do if your child gives up something they used to enjoy?

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What sentences from childhood do you often hear in your head when you are raising children?

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What do you think reduces children's motivation the most?

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What childhood experience comes to your mind when you hear the word "praise"?

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The right motivation creates miracles with children.

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