Our Choices Affect the People Around Us, Too

Our Choices Affect the People Around Us, Too

Our decisions affect the people around us, too. Here you’ll find ideas to help you think independently and communicate your choices with greater confidence.

At work and in our personal lives, our decisions intersect with other people’s needs and opinions. But trying to please everyone can make it harder to recognise what matters to us. Reading and asking critical questions can help us explore different perspectives without giving up our own judgement. Practical exercises also give us a chance to prepare how we’ll explain our choices and have a calm conversation about them.

Interested in this topic? Read more: Overcoming Decision-Making Fears: How the Use of Reading and Critical Thinking Leads to More Confident Choices Want to find out where you stand personally? Take a short test at the end of the page and gain a better understanding.

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Imagine you are at an intersection in an unfamiliar city. The GPS isn't working. What will you do?

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While browsing through old photographs, you come across one that reminds you of a difficult decision. How do you react?

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Which painting attracts you the most?

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You will receive an offer to change jobs. That evening...

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What sound do you think your inner decision-making would make?

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Imagine that you have to make a decision about something important for another person. How do you feel?

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What do you think is the reason people are afraid to make decisions?

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If you had to describe your decision-making like the weather, what would you say?

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Which of these statements do you respond to the most?

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What do you envision when you hear the phrase "irreversible decision"?

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