When a Child Struggles to Find Their Place

When a Child Struggles to Find Their Place

How can you support the well-being of children aged 7 to 9? Discover games and activities that help them talk about challenges and find solutions.

When a child doesn’t know how to join in a game, has an argument with a friend or is afraid of making a mistake, they may need a calm conversation and the chance to try again. Parents and teachers can help by asking non-judgmental questions and offering activities that teach children to listen, cooperate and explore more than one solution. These small steps taken together can help build a sense of safety and trust.

Interested in this topic? Read more: Collaboration and networking: How problem-solving supports the wellbeing of children aged 7 – 9 years and enhances their happiness and health Want to find out where you stand personally? Take a short test at the end of the page and gain a better understanding.

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Imagine a child comes home and says that someone at school doesn't want to let them play. How would you respond?

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A child draws a dark picture full of explosions and chaos. How do you interpret that?

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The child cries because something didn't go well for them. What do you tell them?

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During the game, two children start to argue. You...

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The child claims that "they are stupid" and "understand nothing." How do you respond?

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On the playground, another child pushes your child down and even laughs at them. What will you do?

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What kind of questions do you most often ask children?

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What would you say to a child who is screaming with anger?

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When a child hesitates for a long time and can't make a decision...

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What kind of games do you most often recommend to children?

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Support for the wellbeing of children aged 7 – 9 years: Problem-solving as the key to a happier and healthier life

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