Curious questions for parental growth

Parenting is full of paradoxes. What are your biggest questions?

Every parent faces paradoxes in everyday situations. We try to teach, but also to protect. You may be wondering how to be the best parent while also maintaining your own interests. This blog aims to open the door to curiosity and discuss various perspectives on parenting. Get inspired by practical activities and questions that encourage deep reflection and promote experimentation in your approach to parenting. Uncover the secrets of successful parenting through curious questions and interactions.

Interested in this topic? Read more: Assertive parental feedback: How to evaluate yourself and support your children's growth for the school year Want to find out where you stand personally? Take a short test at the end of the page and gain a better understanding.

Description:
This blog focuses on assertive parental feedback and evaluation of parental performance for the school year, offering practical advice and activities to support personal growth. The goal is to encourage parents to engage in self-reflection and develop assertive communication within the family.

Language tone:
The blog is written positively and motivationally, emphasizing practical advice and interactive activities. It aims to engage the reader and tune them into personal growth.

Target audience:
The target audience consists of parents looking for ways to improve their parenting skills and communication with their children, as well as professionals and educators in the field of upbringing.

Imagine the last school day. What feelings prevail the most in you?

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Gratitude - something has ended and I have endured it. Relief – finally a break, I need to catch my breath. Uncertainty - I could have managed more. Pride – I see how my efforts led somewhere. Dullness – everything merges into routine for me.

When you evaluate your approach to your child's school responsibilities, the closest to you is:

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I try to help when asked for it. I have it more under control than a child. I trust that it will manage on its own. I constantly feel like we are addressing this at the last minute. I would preferably entrust the whole thing to someone else.

What does a typical conversation with your child about school look like?

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He finds out what he needs without my intervention. I have to ask for information, otherwise, they wouldn't say anything. We have our ritual – we talk to each other every day. Sometimes we argue, but in the end, we sort it out. He avoids this topic, and I sometimes do too.

What exhausted you the most during the school year?

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Endless planning and deadlines Emotional swings and conflicts The feeling that everything depends on me. Uncertainty about whether I am doing enough. Silence – when I felt that the child was not turning to me.

Which image best represents your approach to supporting a child?

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Safety net - always ready to catch Lighthouse – I show the way, but the child decides. Motivator – I push when I feel a slump. Comrade – we are in this together. Observer - I wait until I am needed.

What triggers your worries the most regarding school?

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That the child is suffering, but does not show it. That he might miss something important. That I will come across as an incompetent parent. That we won't find common ground. That I take everything too personally.

How do you react when your child makes a mistake?

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I will help him understand why it happened. I am silently making my own reproaches. I will encourage him that it is normal. I will try to solve it for you. I react impulsively, but later I regret it.

What moment from the past school year stuck with you the most?

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When a child has accomplished something on their own. When we were arguing, but then we reconciled. When I realized that it is growing faster than I can perceive. When I was surprised by something I wouldn't have expected. When I felt that he/she needed me.

How would your child describe you in relation to school?

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As a partner you can rely on. As a controller, what does one monitor? As a quiet observer in the background. As a fan who supports regardless of performance. As a person who tries, but doesn't always know how.

What do you wish for the next school year?

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More balance between school and family time. More inner confidence in the parenting role. More open communication with the child. More room for mistakes and learning from them. More trust – in the child and in yourself

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