Self-confidence and assertiveness

Imagine you are in a group where an important decision is being made. How do you react if you have a different opinion than the majority?

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I will openly express my opinion and argue, even if I'm the only one who thinks so. I try to understand others first and only then I offer my perspective. I’d rather keep it to myself to avoid conflict. I will try to lead the discussion in a way that everyone can express their opinion without pressure. I will remain silent, but if someone else says what I think, I will support them.

How do you feel when someone criticizes you in front of others?

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I am open to hearing criticism and will consider whether it is valid. I defend myself, explain my position, and show a different perspective. I'm sorry about that, but I won't admit it; instead, I will withdraw into myself. I take it personally, I feel insecure, and I prefer to avoid similar situations. I see it as an opportunity to improve if the criticism makes sense.

If you ask someone for help and they refuse, what will you do?

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I will understand that he has his reasons, and I will try to resolve it another way. I'll tell myself that there's nothing I can do, and I prefer not to rely on others. I will try to find a way to convince him that he could help me. I wonder if I asked him in an inappropriate way, and I try a different approach. I feel rejected and I'm hesitant whether I will ever ask anyone for help again.

How do you react when something is said in a group that you disagree with?

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I will share my opinion and give space for discussion. I will consider if it is worth it and I will get back to you only if it is really important. I would rather not express myself to avoid causing problems. I will try to lead the group to a different perspective with questions. I will wait for the right moment and then express my opinion individually.

How would you react if you had to speak in front of a large audience?

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I am looking forward to the opportunity; it is a challenge I want to overcome. I am nervous, but I know I can handle it if I prepare well. I am afraid of it, but if I have to, I will endure it somehow. I feel anxious and I am looking for a way to avoid it. I will make sure to be as well prepared as possible so that nothing surprises me.

Imagine you are in a new group of people. How do you behave?

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I’m trying to quickly engage in conversations and be natural. First, I observe the dynamics, and gradually I join in. I am waiting for someone to approach me, and only then will I get more involved. I keep to the background because I don't know how I will be accepted. I am looking for someone I feel a connection with, and I will start talking to them.

What will you do if someone interrupts you and doesn't give you the chance to finish speaking?

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I will calmly stop him and remind him that I haven't finished yet. I'll wait to see if he realizes it himself; if not, I'll reach out later. I will let him speak and give up my space. I am trying to find a moment when I can continue without pressure. I will start speaking more emphatically so that he understands that I am not finished.

How do you react when you have to express disagreement with someone you respect?

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I will express my opinion honestly, but with respect. I will try to understand his perspective first and then express my disagreement. I have a problem saying no, I prefer to gently hint at my disagreement. I fear the reaction, so I am looking for a way to avoid the discussion. I am trying to point out a different perspective without being too confrontational.

How would you react if you saw someone inappropriately criticizing your friend?

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I would stand up for him and express my disagreement. I would try to calm the situation and offer a different perspective. First, I would assess the situation and decide whether it is appropriate to intervene. I wouldn't intervene directly, but later I would support my friend in person. I would feel uncomfortable, but I wouldn't know how to behave correctly.

How do you feel when you have to ask for something that matters a lot to you?

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I have no problem with it, I can justify why I need it. I feel a slight nervousness, but I can do it. I am considering all possible reactions from the other side, which is holding me back a bit. I feel uncertainty, I am afraid that I will be rejected. I would rather take care of it myself to avoid the risk of rejection.

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