How to Turn a Recurring Problem into a Concrete Step

How to Turn a Recurring Problem into a Concrete Step

When a problem keeps recurring, it helps to identify its triggers and decide what to do next. Discover coaching questions and exercises for change at work and in life.

Start by describing a specific situation: what happened beforehand, how you responded, and what followed. Then ask yourself which part of the sequence you can influence next time. Coaching exercises help turn a vague intention into a practical plan, such as preparing for a conversation, setting a boundary, or breaking a challenging task into smaller steps. That way, change doesn’t have to remain just a good intention.

Interested in this topic? Read more: Why the Same Life Patterns Keep Repeating and How Coaching Can Help You Move Forward Want to find out where you stand personally? Take a short test at the end of the page and gain a better understanding.

How does this apply to you? Choose the answers that describe you best:

Imagine that you are once again in a situation that often repeats in your life. What is your first thought?

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When someone gives you feedback that hits you hard, how do you process it?

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What comes to your mind when you hear the word "change"?

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In conflicts, it usually...

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If you have repeated failures in something, what goes through your mind?

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Imagine that you had to relive last year. What would you do differently?

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What types of people repeatedly "get on your nerves"?

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Which of these sentences describes you best when something isn't going well?

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When someone points out your repeated mistakes, how do you react?

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What would your ideal reaction be in a situation that keeps recurring?

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Why do the same situations keep repeating for me – and how can I finally change it?

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