How do you usually try to reduce tension during a conflict?

I am trying to express my feelings without blaming.
Most of the time, I try to stay calm and wait for the tension to subside.
I like to ask the other person what would help them feel better.
In some cases, I focus on finding solutions that are beneficial for both.
I usually focus on helping both of us feel relieved from tension.

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